Is anal sex more enjoying than intercourse?



“I’m a young girl and engaged in physical relations with my bf since a year. Although, we have had sex many a times but more than sex i like other foreplay. what he likes most is sucking and biting my breasts, he often do that in car, cinema halls, and when we have sex. I am worried that my breasts have become quite big now, i dnt know the reason, just want to know is it because of this, or some other thing. Please help me out. One more thing, he asks me for anal sex but i never let him do that. Once he tried inserting his into mine, but it couldn’t make it’s way as my anal area is very small and it can accomodate just a finger only rite now. Do tell me how can we do that easily so that i dnt have to bear pain also, & is anal sex more enjoying than intercourse, please help in answering my questions.”

ANSWER

You don’t say how young you are, but your breasts have probably gotten bigger just because of your natural growth process. Sucking them won’t make them grow. Breasts get bigger as girls mature into women. When it comes to sex boys and men are generally like fire. They get hot quickly and then with an ejaculation they can burn out fast. They often like to go directly to playing with breasts and vagina and then to oral sex and intercourse. Girls and women are more like water. They get hot more slowly, but once they are aroused they can stay that way quite a while. They usually like lots of kissing, caressing, and loving talk before they are ready for breast fondling, oral sex or intercourse. Because of this difference, it’s really important for women to let their boyfriends know they want lots of foreplay and that if they get lots of foreplay they’ll be more interested in the rest of sex.

Look through the articles by Al and Pala. As for anal sex, it can be enjoyable for both men and women because there are lots of nerve endings in the anus that can bring pleasure. It’s different than regular intercourse, some really like it, others don’t like it at all. It is very important to remember that the anus is not like the vagina. It’s wall are very thin. It has no natural lubrication. It has lots of bacteria. So if you are considering anal sex it’s really, really important to use lots and lots of lubricant, like Astroglide.

It’s also really, really important to use condoms or latex gloves to protect you both from infection. After any kind of anal play, always wash hands and any other body parts that come into contact with the anus before you touch other parts, like your vagina. Do you touch your boyfriend’s anus? Does he let you put a finger in him? Ask him to let you explore his body this way before you consider anal intercourse so that he will understand what it feels like.

The anus doesn’t expand like the vagina does, so if you’re going to be putting anything up there (fingers, penis, dildo) be very gentle, very slow, and never put anything inside that doesn’t have a part that stays outside—a rim, or a string for instance. Also, one last word that’s very important. Make sure that every time you have sex you use condoms. And if you’re having regular intercourse, get on the birth control pill now.

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